Don't judge

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There is a tribe in Africa where the birth date of a child is counted not from when they were born, nor from when they are conceived but from the day that the child was a thought in its mother’s mind. And when a woman decides that she will have a child, she goes off and sits under a tree, by herself, and she listens until she can hear the song of the child that wants to come. And after she’s heard the song of this child, she comes back to the man who will be the child’s father, and teaches it to him. And then, when they make love to physically conceive the child, some of that time they sing the song of the child, as a way to invite it.
And then, when the mother is pregnant, the mother teaches that child’s song to the midwives and the old women of the village, so that when the child is born, the old women and the people around her sing the child’s song to welcome it. And then, as the child grows up, the other villagers are taught the child’s song. If the child falls, or hurts its knee, someone picks it up and sings its song to it. Or perhaps the child does something wonderful, or goes through the rites of puberty, then as a way of honoring this person, the people of the village sing his or her song.In the African tribe there is one other occasion upon which the villagers sing to the child. If at any time during his or her life, the person commits a crime or aberrant social act, the individual is called to the center of the village and the people in the community form a circle around them. Then they sing their song to them.The tribe recognizes that the correction for antisocial behavior is not punishment; it is love and the remembrance of identity. When you recognize your own song, you have no desire or need to do anything that would hurt another.And it goes this way through their life. In marriage, the songs are sung, together. And finally, when this child is lying in bed, ready to die, all the villagers know his or her song, and they sing—for the last time—the song to that person.You may not have grown up in an African tribe that sings your song to you at crucial life transitions, but life is always reminding you when you are in tune with yourself and when you are not. When you feel good, what you are doing matches your song, and when you feel awful, it doesn’t. In the end, we shall all recognize our song and sing it well. You may feel a little warbly at the moment, but so have all the great singers. Just keep singing and you’ll find your way home.

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stunningpicture:

The difference one block makes

how many followers do you need before you start getting messages for no reason

I’d say about 1,000 ha.

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jayjayism:

itisabsolutelyalovestory:

omfg.
grimm. you guys. YOU FREAKING GUYS!
I thought ‘sorry’ was good lol
a ver ver good finale.

im still laughing that they put that at the end of the finale lol

is mulan even a disney princess?

disneyismyescape:

cupcakebit:

carryonthroughyourtroubles:

disneyismyescape:

sorry i’m not sorry

SHE IS DAMMIT

She’s definitely not

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How To Show The Different Signs That You Appreciate Them

psych-facts:

This is what the different signs would best appreciate.

Aries: Write them a heart-felt thank you note or card.

Taurus: Give them a gift certificate to their favorite coffee shop or shopping store.

Gemini: Bake them something.

Leo: Ask them about their day.

Cancer: Walk them to the bus stop or home from school.

Virgo: Lend them a hand on something they are working on.

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all-things-bright-and-beyootiful:

Banana Granola via Green Kitchen Stories

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Jonathan Rhys-Meyers lets us look deep into his eyes in his character poster for The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones, provided exclusively to JustJared.com. … Read More Here …
The full official Valentine poster is up on JustJared.com!